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  • Your One-Year-Old: The Fun-Loving, Fussy 12-To 24-Month-Old
    Your One-Year-Old: The Fun-Loving, Fussy 12-To 24-Month-Old
    by Louise Bates Ames, Frances L. Ilg
  • Your Six-Year-Old: Loving and Defiant
    Your Six-Year-Old: Loving and Defiant
    by Louise Bates Ames, Frances L. Ilg
  • Ragnarok: The End of the Gods (Myths)
    Ragnarok: The End of the Gods (Myths)
    by A.S. Byatt
  • The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home (Revised and Updated Edition)
    The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home (Revised and Updated Edition)
    by Susan Wise Bauer, Jessie Wise
  • The Bay Area Forager: Your Guide to Edible Wild Plants of the San Francisco Bay Area
    The Bay Area Forager: Your Guide to Edible Wild Plants of the San Francisco Bay Area
    by Kevin Feinstein, Mia Andler

"We're gonna need a bigger boat."

We are book people, make no mistake. We buy, we borrow, we read and re-read. We lend sometimes, we cull when we must. We have enough books that when I unpacked them last five years ago, I used them as a design element in the living room and arranged them in blocks of color, based on the dominant color on their covers/spines. I managed to make it so the color blocks complemented each other horizontally and vertically.

Yes, I had a job at the time. So did Nehemiah Wallington, and he managed to pray eleven times a day. Just sayin’.

So I’m packing them up with similar intentions, and have boxes labeled with tags like “Penguin Orange Books - Living Room”. Once you tape up five or six boxes and assign a color to each, the work goes pretty quickly. Only… I’m packing boxes 17-22 now, and I’m maaaaaybe halfway done. With the main collection, not the smaller subject/genre collections- homemaking, parenting/child development and education, travel, and porn (What?). Or Seamus’ books.

We’re also in the maket for new bookshelves. Think we can get a bulk discount?


The purge

I just got rid of all of my books about information architecture, systems librarianship, web design and usability, and jump-starting my library career. I feel so much…lighter.

I kept the indexing books. I’m not sure why, though I think indexing would provide a brainy component to my life that I’m currently lacking. Never say never? I’ll get some use out of that degree yet? Hard to say.

But all of that attempting to find a permanent job, contracting, then finding one that wouldn’t cover the expenses of having an infant in San Francisco and the attending emotions of anxiety and doubt and sorrow and some hope followed by more doubt and confusion (and rage, let’s not forget that one)- that’s going away with the books I’ve just consigned to Goodwill. I’ve kept the things that keep me curious. And no more.


How big an asshole does this make me, exactly?

Question for the parents:

I’ve been trying to re-jigger my exercise routine so that it’s a routine and not, I dunno, some happenstance event like finding a twenty in the street. I’m okay enough with how I look, but I don’t feel great, so I’d like to work on that. I’ve discovered that my running stride is too bouncy to effectively push the jogging stroller forward without over-using my shoulders, so I’ve settled on five-mile walks, which let me work on my posture.

It took a long time to figure out how to incorporate Seamus into the walk once he started trying to ditch his nap. He fights getting into/being in the stroller if he’d rather walk, but the truth is that if he’s walking, Im not exercising, I’m walking with a toddler who still requires constant supervision and re-direction. I do those walks too, but not as my workout. Which I really need in order to not grey-out like I have been, or to keep my crankiness in check.

I’ve discovered that if I put Seamus into his stroller at mid-day, hand him his lunch, and go for a five-mile walk, he eats well then has a nap/quiet time, and I get some exercise. But he’s eating a meal alone´╗┐, essentially, and I’m wondering how much of an impact this has. All breakfasts and dinners are family meals, and I’m a much more patient person when I’ve gotten my time to do something that is mostly for me now, but he could join me in walking when he is older and undertands that this is not a walk for exploring every single driveway on every single block.

I’m torn between thinking that this has benefits for us both, and that it’s a total dick parenting technique. Enlighten me please.


It's official.

I’ve got three weeks to pack this place up. Anyone free to play with Seamus while I do this?


Using things up

I’m trying to update Seamus’ and my calendar for the next couple of weeks, and it occurs to me that there’s a lot of stuff I could try to use up while we’re in pre-move mode. Play dough and paints and chicken stock and whatnot. I see a lot of pantry cooking and random crafts in the days ahead.